Don’t forget to include the people who have meant a lot to you

Even though this is all about the two of you, there were people in your lives that may have played an important role. Include them as well. These could be family members and friends. Any pearls of wisdom they may have had, now is the time to honor it. Any funny moments, include those, too. A wedding is the kind of event where there are people to thank. This is one way to do that.

What type of photos should you include?

Photos that are special to the both of you. Special dates, a favorite trip or concert. Our lives are full of selfies and photographed moments. Flip through both of your Instagram and Facebook accounts. Even though you’ve shared those photos already, including them in your video gives them a different and even more meaningful context. If you share a pet, include those too. Our pets are part of the family and a big part of our relationships.

How long should it be?

We recommend you keep it at 3 minutes leaving room for the “ahhhhs” and of course, some loving laughs. This video is one more way to bring the rehearsal dinner guests closer together. Not everyone knows your love story. They may only be aware of the highlights. Let those 3 minutes reveal your hearts, and even a peek into the dreams you share as you plan your future.

A lifetime keepsake

After all is said and done, the days leading up to your wedding are one of the few – if not the only time – when it really will be all about you as a couple. And the rehearsal video can be one of the most precious keepsakes. Someday your kids may ask you, “How did you meet?” This is the story your kids are going to want to know. Now is the time to take the time and tell it all. You will be glad you did for many years to come.